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“Sarah’s approach is wildly unconventional — and effective! Therapists I’ve seen previously have wanted me to rehash my past until I’m blue in the face.”
SARAH H. · BRAND STRATEGIST
GENTLE & TRAUMA-INFORMED SUPPORT AFTER SEXUAL ASSAULT
Worldwide Service · Brisbane-Based
Still carrying it?Let’s Set It Down, Gently.
Not your fault. Not your shame.
A nervous system that never got the all-clear.
“You’ll be believed. You’ll never have to relive it.”
Ready to feel safe in your own body and get yourself back?
WHAT I TREAT
The aftermath shows up in many ways.
Whether it happened last year or decades ago, whether you told anyone or never said a word — what was done to you can live on in your body, your sleep, your relationships and your sense of safety. None of it is your fault. All of it deserves care.
However long ago, and whatever you’ve told yourself since — your body can learn that it’s over.
01.
Hypervigilance
Always braced, always scanning — a nervous system that never got the message you’re safe.
02.
Flashbacks and intrusive memories
Being pulled back into moments you’d give anything to leave behind — by a smell, a sound, a touch.
03.
Nightmares and broken sleep
A body that won’t fully stand down at night.
04.
Shame and self-blame
Replaying what you wore, what you drank, what you didn’t say — carrying blame that belongs entirely to someone else.
05.
Feeling unsafe in your own body
A body that no longer feels like yours, or like somewhere you can rest.
06.
Difficulty with intimacy and touch
Wanting closeness, and flinching from it — or going numb to get through it.
07.
Numbness and detachment
Feeling nothing, or watching your own life from the outside — the system protecting you from too much.
08.
Anxiety and panic
A racing heart and a sense of dread that arrive out of nowhere, or in places that remind you.
09.
Avoidance
Steering around the people, places and situations that stir it up — and watching life narrow.
10.
Doubting your own memory
Wondering whether it counts, whether it was as bad as you remember, whether you’ll be believed.
WHY TIME AND TALKING HAVEN’T SET YOU FREE
You survived it. Your nervous system doesn’t know that yet.
You may understand exactly what happened and why you react the way you do. You may have told the story, or kept it locked away. Either way, your body is still responding as though the danger is here.
THE PREFRONTAL CORTEX
Where you know it’s over.
Understanding, facts, the years that have passed — the level talk therapy works at. It knows you’re safe now. It can’t switch off the alarm below.
THE LIMBIC SYSTEM
Where the alarm is still ringing.
The fight, flight, freeze response that protected you in the moment, and never received the all-clear. That’s exactly where my work goes — gently, and without reliving anything.
You know it’s over. Your body is still waiting for it to happen again. That’s the gap understanding alone can’t bridge.
WHAT A SESSION INVOLVES
Three simple steps.
ESTABLISH SAFETY FIRST
We begin gently, at your pace, building a felt sense of safety in the room before anything else. You never have to recount what happened. You’re in control, always.
STAND THE ALARM DOWN
A simple, gentle process, a little like a visualisation, that helps your nervous system release the threat response and finally register that it’s over. You stay fully conscious and safe throughout.
RECLAIM YOUR BODY AND YOUR LIFE
Then we build forward — safety in your own skin, trust in your own judgement, closeness on your terms. Most clients feel a noticeable shift by the end of their very first session.
My personal mission is to get my client at least some relief, from their very first session.
REAL STORIES, REAL RESULTS
What it feels like on the other side.
Sarah’s approach is wildly unconventional — and effective! Therapists I’ve seen previously have wanted me to rehash my past until I’m blue in the face. Literally a life-changing experience.
SARAH H. / BRAND STRATEGIST / BRISBANE
Sarah is a person who can connect to anyone instantly. She gets you and is passionate to get you to where you want to be. She has done it for herself and she has the tools to get you there. You won’t regret it.
NATALIE B. / COUNSELLOR / BRISBANE
WHY WORK WITH ME
The difference you’ll actually feel.
YOU’LL BE BELIEVED
There’s no convincing to do here, no proving it counts, and no judgement about what you did or didn’t do afterwards.
NO RELIVING REQUIRED
You’ll never be asked to recount or relive what happened. The approach resolves the trauma gently, without reopening the wound to heal it.
SAFETY FIRST, ALWAYS
Safety isn’t an afterthought here. It’s the foundation, the pace and the whole point. We move only as fast as your nervous system allows.
NO WAITLIST, NO REFERRAL
Private practice means no GP referral, no Medicare waitlist and no need to disclose to anyone else to begin.
IS THIS RIGHT FOR YOU?
My approach isn’t for everyone — and I’d rather be honest about that.
This is for you if…
- It happened — recently or long ago — and your body still reacts as though it’s happening
- You’ve talked it through, or never spoken about it, and the fear and shame are still there
- You’re ready to actually resolve it, not keep managing the symptoms
- You want a gentle approach that never requires you to relive it
It may not be the fit if…
- You’re in acute crisis and need immediate clinical or psychiatric care
- You’re looking for ongoing, open-ended talk therapy rather than resolution
- You’re not quite ready — and that timing deserves deep respect
If it happened recently, or you’re not sure what you need, 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) is available 24 hours a day, and 000 in an emergency. When you’re ready, the free consult is exactly where we work out, gently, whether this is right for you.
AND IF I’M NOT THE RIGHT HELP?
My promise.
I’ll get you to whoever is.
Sometimes the aftermath is being held in place by something else — complex trauma, a mood disorder, or a level of need that calls for specialist care.
If that becomes apparent while we’re working together, I won’t leave you to work it out alone. Your investment goes toward identifying what’s actually going on and coaching you toward the right approach — and I’ll act as your champion through the system, so you get a shortcut instead of years of trial and error.
I can’t stand the thought of needless suffering. You’ll be delivered safely to the right help, either way.
In 98% of the cases I take on, I am the right help. The other 2% leave with a clear path to the person who is.
LET’S BE HONEST
You don’t need to keep carrying what someone else did.
The flinch at an unexpected touch. The nights you don’t sleep. The closeness you want and can’t let in. The blame you’ve carried that was never yours. None of that has to be the shape of your life now.
So let’s let your body finally stand down. Gently. Together.
BEFORE YOU BOOK
Your questions, answered.
01.Do I have to talk about what happened?
No — and this matters most of all. Because we work with the subconscious rather than re-analysing the past, you never have to recount what was done to you. You share only what you choose to, and you remain safe and in control throughout.
02.I never reported it, and it was years ago. Does that matter?
Not at all. You don’t need a report, a conviction or anyone else’s belief for it to count, and how long ago it happened doesn’t determine how long it takes to resolve. Trauma carried for decades can still shift — often more gently and quickly than people expect.
03.Can this help with intimacy and touch?
Yes. When the nervous system stops treating closeness as a threat, intimacy stops being something to brace through. We work gently, at your pace, and closeness returns on your terms.
04.Will I be hypnotised, or lose control?
No. You remain fully conscious and in control at every moment — that matters especially here. The change work is gentle, closer to a guided visualisation than anything you’ve seen on stage.
Ready when you are.
Let’s get you back to yourself.
Book your free 15-minute consult. We’ll talk gently about what’s been going on, and exactly how I can help — without reliving it.
No pressure, no obligation — just a conversation about what’s possible for you.
Ready to feel better? Book your private consultation today.
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